Way too much

We couldn't handle it.  We had to ask for them to be removed.  I felt horrible about it, but I knew that it wasn't going to get any better, and we needed to think about our kids.  It was just short of traumatizing for them.  I don't really want to go into details (and can't in some instances) but I the behaviors were effecting the kids WAY too much.  I couldn't do that to them.  Our first and foremost responsibility is to them.  It was so hard, but we just couldn't do it.  We're going to take some time to process and think.